Husband refuses to do anything nice for me. Especially for my B-day and mothers day?

He acts like these days are just another day. Even for valentines day this yr i got angry with him because he didnt plan anything or so much as give me a card. He just doesnt care. He's only sorry when I get mad at him about it. This morning I woke up and he demanded i make him breakfast! Im like its mothers day for cryin out loud! So we went to the movies and saw a movie HE wanted to see, did some food shopping and then he pitched a fit because i wouldnt make him a pie. He has really killed my feelings for the holidays. I used to love all of them but he ruins them for me. He says flowers, chocolates and cards are a waste of money. Is anyone elses husband like this?